Most of us have a good idea of what makes a hairdresser appealing: expertise, experience, pleasing personality, enthusiasm, confidence and most importantly the ability to listen. However, is that enough! A good hairdresser will continue to update their education and learn about new trends and creative fashion techniques; and will also not be afraid of experimenting with new products and ideas. When choosing your hairdresser you will need to know that, the stylist has experience with your particular hair type. There are such hairstylists out there and you will find them just as long as you know how to communicate with them. Whether it is for a simple trim a caring conditioning treatment, you require or a total makeover, going to a new hairdresser can be daunting experience.  However, here are some helpful tips to give you some direction, when looking for a new stylist or wanting a new look.

Locating a good hairdresser
A good hairdresser should not be hard to find, but it will help, if you know which questions to ask and what to look for. You will need to find a stylist with whom you feel comfortable. This will allow you to be open about your likes and dislikes. If you friend whose hair you like, you may want to ask them where they go, they may even accompany you on your first visit. Your friend will less likely to beat about the bush, when telling the stylist what you are looking for. Other than that, choose a salon or stylist with a good reputation.

Consider a consultation
It is always advisable when looking for a new hairstylist to book a consultation. This reduces the anxiety of a first time visit with a new stylist. You can observe the professionalism of the stylist and see how comfortable you feel. When you book your consultation be sure to tell the receptionist of your hair type and what kind of looks you like, this will help them to choose the stylist most suitable for you.  Most hairdressers do not charge for a consultation and it is a great way of getting to know a little about the stylist before committing to an appointment.

Communication and speaking your hairdresser’s language
The most im important element of your relationship with your hairdresser is communication. Most of us find it difficult to express our want and needs even to those close to us, so how are we supposed to open up to a new face, and to someone whom we may only see every six weeks or so. Take note of how the stylist conducts his or herself during the consultation.  A good stylist will start with an introduction, consisting of a beaming smile, eye contact and a firm handshake. They should be observing your face and body shape, complexion and eye colour, and be brushing or combing your hair to check for hair growth patterns, determine hair type and texture and to check for scalp disorders. They should also be asking you quoits during this time such as, how much time you like to spend on your hair, what profession you are in, which styling products you are used to working with, and your general likes and dislikes. Once they have considered your responses, they will ask you what you would like. This is where the stylist will expect your input. In addition, it is imperative to be honest and to give as much information as you possibly can.

Trying to describe what you want can be difficult. What will you ask for? Do you know the difference between layers, graduations or blunt cuts? Should you talk about wisps, layers or feathering? This is where pictures from magazines can tell the story for you. Here are some tips for getting the most out of your consultation.

1. If you choose a picture, make sure that it is the hairstyle that you like and not the overall look of the model.
2. Ask the stylist if the stylist will suit your face shape and hair texture
3. Find out how difficult the style will be to maintain, it is no good getting a new look that is going to take an hour out of your day, if you already have a hectic lifestyle.
4. Also ask how often you will need to re-visit the salon on order to keep your style looking good.
5. If you are thinking of a new colour, always ask to see a colour chart.
6. Make sure that you find out how much it will all cost, so that there are no surprises.
7. Ask how long your salon visit will take.

Up close and personal
Your relationship with your hairstylist normally becomes a personal one; it is usual to put your trust in your stylist and expect confidentiality. However, the time may come when you feel your relationship with your stylist is not working, and want a change.
Your stylist may have taken you for granted, and not pay you the attention you deserve; they may be burnt out and tired, not showing enthusiasm for offering new looks. Alternatively, it could be that your circumstances have changed and you can no longer afford your salon visits. Alternatively, you may just want a change.
Whatever the reason it is normal to feel obliged to go back repeatedly, however you are under no moral obligation to go back, and you should not feel guilty about calling your stylist and saying that you will not be coming back. Most hairdressers understand the need for change, and find it more upsetting that you feel the need to explain yourself when bumping into them at your local supermarket. There is no need!  When all your stylist wants is for you to be pleasant.

So take the plunge, find a new hairstylist, get a new look and enjoy a new experience.